The height and width was way more than the width:785px; height:500px, when I copied n pasted the codes provided above the chat was invisible, till I ventured to the fanceyflirts.co and grabbed the codes using firebug,
then it became visible as an embed at my Site, the codes I got from FireBug were as follows:
<div style="position:absolute; overflow:hidden; left:0px; top:0px; width:845px; height:816px; z-index:0" id="html1">
<object width="100%" height="100%" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" data="
http://bit.ly/fJ77l7" id="faceflow">
<param value="high" name="quality">
<param value="#ffffff" name="bgcolor">
<param value="always" name="allowScriptAccess">
<param value="
http://bit.ly/fJ77l7" name="src">
<param value="faceflow" name="name">
<param value="middle" name="align">
<param value="true" name="allowFullScreen">
</object></div>
The codes after adjusting were as follows:
<div style="position:absolute; overflow:hidden; left:auto; top:auto; width:785px; height:500px; z-index:0" id="html1">
<object width="100%" height="100%" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" data="
http://bit.ly/fJ77l7" id="faceflow">
<param value="high" name="quality">
<param value="#000000" name="bgcolor">
<param value="always" name="allowScriptAccess">
<param value="
http://bit.ly/fJ77l7" name="src">
<param value="faceflow" name="name">
<param value="middle" name="align">
<param value="true" name="allowFullScreen">
</object></div>