My website: http://www.ponisocial.com/ has been having some issues. A while back ago, a user told me that he was having problems with notifications. That.. he wasn't retrieving them. This was before we upgrade to the latest upgrade. Well recently, my server had started glitching out. It finally works now, however, my account wont give me notifications or messages. I can't even send messages. I can post on walls, comment, but I'm in a very sticky situation.

I am an admin. I run the server. I am completely lost on what to do. I used my test account to see if everything worked and it did. But my account just wont do. I have my cron set up. I even manually updated it too to see it it will fix things, but nothing does. I'm a little frustrated because I put SO much work into that account and it means a lot to me. Especially because I treasure the age of my accounts on any website. 

Anyone has a clue on what I should do? It would be HIGHLY appreciated if someone can help me. I feel very sad about all of this. I'm only 17(soon to be 18) and I'm completely lost..