hi there oxwall team
i dont know what to do now
my hosting company is complain because i use too many resources and i dont know what to do to speed up the site
im in a small vps and still having problems
this is the site load

Pid Owner Priority CPU % Memory % Command
mysql 0  18.5  4.2 /usr/sbin/mysqld --basedir=/ --datadir=/var/lib/mysql --user=mysql --log-error=/var/lib/mysql/vps.mundohot.cl.err --pid-file=/var/lib/mysql/vps.mundohot.cl.pid 2331 root 0 0.0  6.0 /usr/bin/spamd -d --allowed-ips=127.0.0.1 --pidfile=/var/run/spamd.pid --max-children=3 --max-spare=1 2346  root 0 0.0  5.7 spamd child
root 0 0.0  4.8 whostmgr2 - top ./top 7299  root 0 0.0  2.6 lfd - sleeping 2496  root 0 0.0  1.7 cpdavd - accepting connections on 2077 and 2078
root 0 0.0  1.5 whostmgrd - serving 201.236.32.30 2685  root 0 0.0  1.3 cpsrvd - waiting for connections 2365  root 0 0.0  1.0 /usr/bin/perl /usr/local/cpanel/bin/leechprotect
root 0 0.0  1.0 tailwatchd 1565  root 0 0.0  0.8 /usr/bin/python ./hpssd.py

0 0.0  0.8 queueprocd - wait to process a task 999  root -10 0.0  0.7 iscsid 1547  named 0 0.0  0.7 /usr/sbin/named -u named 2624 68 0 0.0  0.6 hald

what other info can i put here to see whats going on?

hope you can help me