as to the cron, please follow this tutorial: http://docs.oxwall.org/install:cron

if none of the commands work, contact your provider to assist you with cron configuration

as to the FB connect, please provide a screenshot of the FB settings and FB settings in your ADMIN Panel. 

Thanks ross,

Please note the message center showing no updates or cron job needed.  Last night I received one youtube auto post and then no more so maybe cron is working on that site but no FB connect, I will know more later today. I have attached a picture from my other site where the FB connect is working but no cron...  I have suggested to my host that it may be a primary/secondary domain issue because that's all I can think of at this point.

I need FB settings as well, canvas URL, app domain as well, Please provide a screenshot

you need to add FB canvas not website

just follow the tutorial: http://docs.oxwall.org/plugin-tuts:facebook-connect

My next question was going to be is there a proper tutorial for this as I have never been shown or told about one.  :)

Please follow the link above :)

Was looking good until it just went to another error message after uninstall reinstall and clearing cache.

Chris, PM me your admin and FB access details and I'll be more than happy to do that for you. 

Thanks but I really wanna learn so I can reproduce results so hopefully I can use what you do as a template of course.  It just almost worked upon sign up but with an error 500 message upon logging into facebook with the connect pop up window

can you please delete the application and set it again?

by the way, have you update the plugin? is it of the latest version?

yes and yes