Tammy i bought profiles, they were installing the profiles,

 during the installing (after 1 day) my hosting provider suspend my hosting they said 

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Hello,

System administration was forced to suspend your site in an emergency to prevent server and system overloads. There were a large number of emails originating from the account, as well as significant CPU usage. Most of the usage was stemming from the /base/user/ajax-sign-in/ directory, which may be indicating a brute-force attack; however, you will need to make significant optimizations in order to lower the impact of the traffic to the site

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now i have requested for unsuspend and assure them that i will turn off mail option so they have activated my account back now

i am using skadate software for my site as you warn me to don't use mass profiles thanks for your advise but it is just for starting after i will get the real member i will delete this database.

now i just want to turn off mail system and tammy if you have a experience in dating site please advise my what shoud i do now in order to promote my site and solve this mail problem

Thanks