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<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>

<plugin>
    <name>Meet</name>
    <key>xxxxxx</key>Key Removed While showing on here
    <description>Create public and private meets within your community, let people RSVP and discuss</description>
    <author>Oxwall Foundation</author>
    <authorEmail>plugins@oxwall.org</authorEmail>
    <authorUrl>http://www.oxwall.org/foundation</authorUrl>;
    <developerKey>ffca8b7c71a3c7f4a722c04be7c9ba7b</developerKey>
    <build>8710</build>
    <copyright>(C) 2009 Oxwall Foundation. All rights reserved.</copyright>
    <license>The BSD License</license>
    <licenseUrl>http://www.opensource.org/...hp</licenseUrl>;
</plugin>

Jan, what changes you did to the events plugin? 

Can you please try again, now?

If the problem persists, PM me your plugin, I'll check a look, normally we do not provide assistance with modified plugins, but I think it does not differ much from the original one

hi ive just tried with the skeleton this time everywhere where i saw skeleton i replaced with meet instead  at this time nothing else as been altered apart from plugin.xml where ive put in a pluging key and changed plugin name to meet

i have attached the plugin for inspection as im getting the same error

see below

OW Debug - Exception

Message: There is no active plugin with key `meet` File: /home/jktempla/public_html/fabcouples/ow_core/plugin_manager.php Line: 86 Trace: #0 /home/jktempla/public_html/fabcouples/ow_plugins/meet/install.php(3): OW_PluginManager->getPlugin('meet') #1 /home/jktempla/public_html/fabcouples/ow_system_plugins/base/bol/plugin_service.php(558): include_once('/home/jktempla/...') #2 /home/jktempla/public_html/fabcouples/ow_system_plugins/admin/controllers/plugins.php(715): BOL_PluginService->install('19611973') #3 [internal function]: ADMIN_CTRL_Plugins->install(Array) #4 /home/jktempla/public_html/fabcouples/ow_core/request_handler.php(266): call_user_func_array(Array, Array) #5 /home/jktempla/public_html/fabcouples/ow_core/application.php(329): OW_RequestHandler->dispatch() #6 /home/jktempla/public_html/fabcouples/index.php(73): OW_Application->handleRequest() #7 {main} Type: InvalidArgumentException

Jan, the problem is that the folder, the key and the name should be the same and also it is case-sensitive

I changed your plugin.xml to this: 

<name>meet</name>    <key>meet</key>

and plugin uploaded successfully

yes sussed it out after going through the crashcourse hun

im using the site events at the moment but in the future im looking at having a custom events done with more things on where would it best to go to have this created for me ive looked at the market and freelancer page but im getting error cannot connect hun

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