They would have to go to their privacy settings, and select "My Friends" from the drop down list for the categories that they only want friends to see. The "Friend Lists" plugin adds some additional functionality by tying friend lists to the privacy plugin.

Here's the link, if you want to check it out.
https://developers.oxwall.com/store/item/1080

I am dumb lol, sorry I didn't have the privacy module installed.

thank you

We've all been there done that. After you get a little under your belt you'll be helping others as figure things out.