More information on review process: https://developers.facebook.com//docs/apps/faq
Build 10815 of Facebook Connect plugin is aimed at addressing this policy.
New build asks only for default fields and email, thus webadmins don't have to submit their Facebook apps for review.
Plugin update is available within the Admin Panel >> Plugins >> Installed plugins. If you don't see an update yet, visit Admin Panel >> click on a clock sign in upper left corner >> click "Check Updates":
After this go back to the list of all plugins. Update request should appear:
Click "Update" >> click "Yes":
Enter your server FTP details to finalize the update.