I found it in feed_widget.php at line 101
public static function getSettingList() { $settingList['count'] = array( 'presentation' => self::PRESENTATION_SELECT, 'label' => OW::getLanguage()->text('newsfeed', 'widget_settings_count'), 'optionList' => array(5 => '5', '10' => 10, '20' => 20), 'value' => 15 );
Funny thing is optionlist looks like an array that should be shown in that backend somewhere but i cant find it. anyways i changed 'value' => 10 to 'value' => 15 and this did the trick. if there is an area in the admin panel i am missing please let me know.