http://www.oxwall.org/market/specialists why not get someone from here to build you what you want. a new plugin that shows all content posted on the site. Personally i like the way the newsfeed works. Index is for all posts and activity on the site, Dashboard is for posts from friends and people you follow makes perfect sense to me...
But do you not thinks its a bit stupid,Most website do not have a newsfeed on the main home page ,people have no choice in the matter if thy want to use newsfeed ,it might be ok for you Randel,if you or not looking to have so many members on your website ,im trying to run a pro website ,not making it look stupid.It well put guests off joining your site ,because there is no privacy.Randel all I can say to you mate if you have a newsfeed on your main page ,you can kiss goodbye to lots of guests signing up on your website .And some members wonder why the hell thy do not have so many members.If you want lots of members ,then get lots of good content on your site ,not a silly newsfeed on the main index page