No worries ross, still fb inviter is a great tool to invite other people, i just hope it will be fixed asap.

by the way ross, whenever people click the link sent to them via facebook contact importer, heres what they see a very disorganized version of the website

Is this FB page? 

It should contain invitation only like Somebody invites you to join ......

What FB contact importer version do you have? 

What is your software version?

i just updated my website last july or august i think to 1.7.1
and my contact importer dont have the alert that needs to be updated so i guess its up to date

i really dont know what happened there, before it was a simple button, now its a mess

please check the build in the plugin.xml file of the plugin. 

should i go to my cpanel to see that ross?

yes, ow_plugins/pluginname/plugin.xml file

you'll see there a build line like this<build>1111<build>

here it is ross