the image you see above is the uninstall page and you will notice there is no confirm button so even if I need to pay someone to help with this I will but I am going to try one more thing as soon as my server is upgraded im gonna try and move my site over to a sub site without the groups plugin at all then I will try and export import again I know that's a lot to do but unless someones gonna just tell me what I asked for then its my only choice