Your best bet is to either make your own mobile version and/or app for your site or use a responsive theme and disable the oxwall mobile site cause it sucks and won't be changing anytime soon.This would be your best shot :)
i well just wait until its a bit better the mobile in oxwal and then get someone to sort it out far me
The mobile is not that bad in oxwall ,just needs more things added to it
Australia the network speed is find for responsive
but many my members are from Philippines and other countries with not so good network
and the desktop site is way to much for there networks and they have to use the mobile site
just use responsive wont get you any browny points with google
your site wont get indexed as mobile friendly
and more and more reasons so are your still foolish enough to think just use responsive theme
sites are not about easy for developers its about end user experience
i have a responsive theme and use @ media not to show lots stuff on mobiles and tabletsIt sounds that your issues are more network/infrastructure related than Oxwall related.
i use all cache headers and opcache memcached nignx and so on
Australia the network speed is find for responsive
but many my members are from Philippines and other countries with not so good network
and the desktop site is way to much for there networks and they have to use the mobile site
just use responsive wont get you any browny points with google
your site wont get indexed as mobile friendly
and more and more reasons so are your still foolish enough to think just use responsive theme
sites are not about easy for developers its about end user experience
Your statement about SEO is also incorrect. Responsive is marked by Google as mobile friendly. This changed as of mid-2015. Here is Google's official take on the matter, stated in question #8.
To all, I'd recommend going the responsive route. Support developers in the Oxwall store who are creating fantastic responsive themes. This will encourage them to support those themes and create more.
Responsive themes are great but theres lots plugins that dont support it or mobile view
2. DB and server load are not so high, You need straight hands to make it working, using correct sql, php, etc. settings
3. Use plugins that You really need and through out shit.
4. Regularly clean DB (manually)
5. Modify css
And You will be happy!
Some time ago I had one month load with 25-50 users online non-stop. Abt 5 hits in second. No problems! Website slowed down but to much! I keep my site on SHARED HOSTING with so little memory, cpu's and i/o rate that You could cry! Every week I read and learn how to optimize site, db, etc. If Your community going slow - You are a bad admin! Devs done what they done - now Your turn!