Cool whats username il get few send stuff every couple days or so 

Its not just notifications in 1.8.1 join mails are not be generated

3 ppl in a row reported to me they not get join mail and look at db clean  then cpanel email trace the welcome and confirm mails were never send 

tester is the username

verification e-mail, forgot password e-mail and welcome e-mail are sent directly to the mail server

so they do not appear in the ow_base_mail unless you have smtp enabled on your site

yes i have smtp  but the emails never go to the email server 
they never got generated at all 

I just registered at your website 

I got the verification e-mail and confirmation e-mail

yes that site is 1.8.0 seams to send welcome and join confirm fine im say 1.8.1 is not send them

what is your 1.8.1 site?

my main site i will not update it to 1.8.1 untill a week before 1.8.2 is released 
and only if all my plugin and 1.8.1 core works 

and 1.8.1 is mail send welcome and join confirm problem 
1.8.0 is send notifications problem so 
when i have time im revert back to 1.7.3 when things worked better for my main site and just bide my time untill maybe 1.8.6 is released and some of the huge problems are fixed 

is just a test site that i try things on and ask some ppl to try join it so make shore join all works 
as every version update so many things get stuffed up you have to test everything from join to everything in between to delete profile 

provide the link to your test 1.8.1 site

https://www.thenaughtyretreat.com/test/
and looking my server admin mail account cron is not overloaded at this time so join mails should work 

if you join it you will notice another problem i have not bought up yet keeps say red banner user not found 

the member it can not find is the admin account 

Your test website email are coming both verification and welcome. See screenshot

yes they will work as i said because cron is not overloaded at this time
the main admin  account made in install is missing from the users page 
the main account is called test 
and on go to users page and even when login as admin and go some admin pages throws that error
and i tryed install 2 times and both the same missing admin account

What do you mean the cron is not overloaded at this time?

As to the admin profile issue, create a separate topic, again, one request per topic

ok 
i am not getting mail from my server on cron runs taking over 60 seconds to run 
50%  are from when cloudflare plugin is try talking to cloudflare 
when thats happening and im getting mail after mail on cron take over 60 seconds 
the mail problems seam to be then as well 

I'm sorry I don't understand, how do you figure your cron takes 60 seconds to run?

how can we test it on your website? we already provided you every screenshot possible related to the mail not being recieved by your users, we cannot reproduce that. 

Time: Mon Feb 15 17:01:39 2016 +1100 

PID: 24260 (Parent PID:24259)

 Account: mine 

Uptime: 97 seconds 

 Executable: /home/virtfs/mine/usr/bin/curl Command Line (often faked in exploits): curl https://www.thenaughtyretreat.com/ow_cron/run.php Network connections by the process (if any): tcp: 208.67.20.50:48866 -> 208.67.20.50:443

1 and half minutes cron is try talking with cloudflare 

so maybe that cron run is take over the 60 seconds that cron is set for maybe the next run at the 60 seconds gets stuffed up because the first cron has not finished
maybe i can try set cron to 2 minutes and see if fixes it