just wondering if anyone has any experience of this or does it require dedicated hosting? I run shared servers with a few hundred sites on each, mostly wordpress etc. Tried hosting an oxwall dating site on there and it just immediately kills the server, load shoots up its unusable. I'm fairly sure this is down to the chat system running pings all the time. If anyone has any advice to fix this let me know thanks

some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:24:21 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1002 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; WOW64; Trident/7.0; rv:11.0) like Gecko"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:24:31 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1034 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64; rv:52.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/52.0"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:24:40 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1034 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/56.0.2924.87 Safari/537.36"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:24:52 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1002 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; WOW64; Trident/7.0; rv:11.0) like Gecko"34.249.37.228 - - [28/Mar/2017:11:25:01 +0000] "GET /ow_cron/run.php HTTP/1.1" 200 306 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (X11; Ubuntu; Linux x86_64; rv:47.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/47.0"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:25:02 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1034 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64; rv:52.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/52.0"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:25:10 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1034 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/56.0.2924.87 Safari/537.36"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:25:22 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1002 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; WOW64; Trident/7.0; rv:11.0) like Gecko"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:25:33 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1034 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64; rv:52.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/52.0"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:25:42 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 200 1034 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/56.0.2924.87 Safari/537.36"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:25:52 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 403 794 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; WOW64; Trident/7.0; rv:11.0) like Gecko"34.249.37.228 - - [28/Mar/2017:11:26:02 +0000] "GET /ow_cron/run.php HTTP/1.1" 403 630 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (X11; Ubuntu; Linux x86_64; rv:47.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/47.0"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:26:03 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 403 826 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64; rv:52.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/52.0"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:26:14 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 403 826 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/56.0.2924.87 Safari/537.36"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:26:22 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 403 794 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; WOW64; Trident/7.0; rv:11.0) like Gecko"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:26:33 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 403 826 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64; rv:52.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/52.0"some ip - - [28/Mar/2017:11:26:46 +0000] "POST /base/ping/index/ HTTP/1.1" 403 826 "oxwallsite.com" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/56.0.2924.87 Safari/537.36"