OK folks back to playing by the rules. 

Folks remember that we are not allowed and you are restricted from assisting anyone on the forum that has removed the oxwall attribute from the footer of their site without permission.

This means that their site will not be listed on the donate page. This also means you need to start asking and looking.  Look at their profile, ask for their domain name.   There are ways to get the info you need quickly and not make them wait for ever. 

 Also if their website has search on the front page, then it is a SkaDate site and please send them to the SkaDate Forum.  

Thanks :)