What about themes like
http://www.oxwall.org/store/item/443 (which is the one I use with some custom stuff)?
Also I have these, some paid and some not, installed.
NewsfeedNewsfeed with likes and comments, Facebook-style
MailboxUser mailbox for private messages
FriendsFriending functionality to be used across multiple features
Activity notificationsReal-time and email notifications about site activity
Image SlideshowImage Slideshow
BlogsUser blogs with archives, tags, comments and rates
GroupsSimple groups within one site
LinksWeb links sharing, Digg-style
PhotoAllow users to upload photos with tags, rates, and comments
VideoAllow users to embed videos with comments, rates, and tags
ForumSimple discussion boards for users
EventsCreate public and private events within your community, let people RSVP and discuss
PrivacyPrivacy settings for users to manage who sees their profiles and content.
User IP TrackerDisplays IP address of each members in the profile based on their last login or Join IP address. Only Admin can view the IP address. Works with Oxwall 1.4 and 1.5 versions.
New User AlertNotifies Admin with an Email when an user is newly registered in your Oxwall network
Anti SpammerAntispammer (Oxwall 1.4 and 1.5) Protect your site from spammers and unwanted people!
Private Message ViewerAdmin can view all the private conversations of the members secretly. Supports user filtering and works with Oxwall 1.4 and 1.5 versions.
Page ReporterLets a user report abuse on a page quickly
Login As UserPlugin allows site administrator and site moderators to login with other users credentials with just one click
Sitemap GeneratorSitemap Generator plugin with features like auto sitemap generation, Gzip compression, multi-sitemap files processing and auto ping search engines. Admin can customize Frequency and Priority of URLs. Works fine with SEO plugin. Compatible with Oxwall 1.4 and 1.5 versions.
CloudFlare integrationImplements Cloudflare service support
Cache ExtremeClear the cache while not in DEV-mode
See my concern?
Regards,
Steve