First of all Tammy i understand where you are comming from and your concern and as for the profanity well if you have to express yourself that way well thats your issue. As far as the joke i think you may have misunderstood that quite honestly. How many times have you been to a meeting and you ask a question and they say see me after the meeting. It is because you have a special question that requires special attention. I only laughed because there is no after class here. And i said JK because i did not want you to think that i did not take you seriously.
As far as wether or not you consider me an adequate leader, all i can do is "do what i do" and if i dont score high with you then i am sorry but not my issue.
Now back on point here. As i have said in the past rules are designed for those who have character enough and care enough to follow them. Those who dont well those are the exceptions and something we all must bare.
As per your idea of having a new forum topic designed around developers and consumers communicating, that was the idea behind the plugin support posts, but the problem is that developers do not want posts there. Most issues are solved via email and until we can come up with a system that devs will gladly follow, having a new forum topic will not work.
I hope you see my point.